Why Is There So Much Pain And Suffering?

Heaven is our home, this life is a birth canal, but it ends with inexpressible joy.

A battered tree lives a lonely life on the California coast. Much like a bruised and broken person, this tree has endured too much. What’s God up to? Isn’t it time for the suffering to end?

The Tree Takes A Beating

There’s a tree in our yard that we planted a few years back. My wife received it when we took a Christmas tree to the city for mulching. When Sheila first received the tree, it was small. Just an unassuming sapling - full of hope for the future. A Monterrey Oak, bursting with potential.

We planted it in a pot on the back porch. Our little porch overlooked a forest of fully-grown cedars. We enjoyed watching the tree grow. It had some sun. It got watered along with the other plants. And, it grew.

But, you see, it grew into a funny shape. It took a considerable left turn in its growth - growing toward the sun and not getting turned by a good gardener, working to ensure even growth.

A squirrel broke one branch, ensuring a lop-sided pattern in its future growth. The little tree went through a lot in a few short years. You could say it had a hard start in its young life.

When we moved, we re-planted the oak tree into the yard in full sun. The sapling grew, but it maintained its dog-legged appearance, bearing the scars of a harsh beginning.

The tree was our little haphazard symbol of life. You see, life is not a box of chocolates or a bowl of cherries. Sometimes life is, quite simply, hard. Life doesn’t always deal you what you expect or even what you want. It’s just difficult.

Sure, in life we get glimpses of heaven. We get an idea of what to expect in glory. We get mountaintop experiences - and we also get the valley of the shadow of death.

We get clouds with silver linings - and we also get tornadoes and hurricanes taking lives lived too little.

We get children dying, cancer growing, and drunk driving. It’s a lot to bear.

Paul, an apostle of Jesus, tells us, “We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.” (2 Corinthians 4:8-9)

I Get Knocked Down, But I Get Up Again

Even the popular 90’s band Chumbawamba sings, “I get knocked down, but I get up again. You’re never gonna keep me down.”

I’m here to tell you, God never intended life to be this way. Jesus tells us, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.” (John 10:10)

God is not out to punish the wicked. He is a doctor for the sick. He’s not out to condemn the sinner. He’s here to pay the price for the one who can’t afford the fine. He’s not here to force people into religion, or else. He’s here as a friend of the sinner, to lead them to safety and a hope for the future.

Jesus encourages us, despite our worldly struggles. He says, “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world." (John 16:33)

Jesus has overcome the world. What does the get us? Why is the world still such a messed-up place? People are hurt and broken because of sin. The world is a bad place because of sin – mine, yours, everyone’s sin.

Jesus came as God in the form of one of us. He lived a sinless life and died to pay the price for all sin. He did this to “overcome the world.” He did this to fix everything broken with the world - everyone’s pain. Jesus rose to life again to conquer death and show us the way to freedom. He remains with his followers, living inside of each one.

Jesus says, “... And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” (Matthew 28:20)

Paul, tells us, “For our sake he made him [Jesus] to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.” (2 Corinthians 5:21)

So, Jesus is with us and in us. His Kingdom is now - yet we still struggle. The war is won, but the battle is still raging. Our pain and suffering are brief. In the grand plan, we suffer just a moment. To us, it feels like a lifetime. No joking, right? It’s nothing to trivialize.

My brother’s pain hurts him 24/7. He can’t seem to get any relief. It’s not his fault. What’s God trying to teach him anyway?

My mother is wracked with grief and pain after losing my father. 54 years together, and now she must navigate life alone.

People lose jobs. Family gets sick. Death, destruction, and bad news captures the attention of humanity.

I know people who have lost children too young. I know people who are in agony with every step they take. I know people who never seem to stop suffering. Misery lines up in a long queue, hitting them with blow after blow, leaving them struggling to catch a breath, much less lift their head with dignity. What’s God up to? Isn’t it time for the suffering to stop?

I don’t have the answers. I don’t know why the world is in such a state. I don’t even know why God allows it to continue. Here’s what I have learned. Take my opinion for what it is and ask God about it one day when you see him face-to-face.

God is repairing the evil that is loose in the world. Yes, he’s won the war. But, he is routing out the enemy. He’s storming foxholes and blowing up bunkers.

He’s repairing this world and calling his righteous people to himself. All of this is work he’s doing in the spiritual realm to finish his Kingdom and bring his people together.

Scripture tells us, “For the eyes of the Lord range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him.” (2 Chronicles 16:9)

God’s people have to go through the trials of this earth while we live here. My friend, John Burke, is the pastor of Gateway Church in Austin, Texas. He also wrote Imagine Heaven, a New York Times bestseller. Burke puts it this way, “Heaven is our home. This life is a birth canal we’re going through. It’s painful and difficult but just like childbirth, it ends with new life and a joy inexpressible. Paul’s letter to the Romans doesn’t say God cursed humanity, it says God cursed the creation with death and decay. According to the 2nd Law of Thermodynamics, everything rots, rusts, decays, gets destroyed, and there is disease and death, but God leaves it for a time with a bigger story in mind.”

And, the passage in Romans Burke references says, “For we know that the whole creation has been groaning together in the pains of childbirth until now. And not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies.” (Romans 8:22-23)

There is a mystery in what Jesus is doing. We know he’s rounding up the lost sheep. He’s working on the bigger plan to overcome pain and suffering. He’s working on those who are wrapped up in making themselves the “god” of their own kingdom. He’s already won, but his people are not yet able to get on without pain and suffering.

Suffering is inevitable. Pain still haunts us. And, life happens. But God uses it to form and shape his people. It’s a corrective measure. God isn’t causing the hurt.

You read that right - God uses pain, but he doesn’t cause it. He’s using pain to get us ready for eternity. The suffering molds us to his will and ways. Eternity will be free from pain and suffering, just as he promised us.

Paul continues in Romans, “And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified.” (Romans 8:27-30)

This Monterrey Oak lives in my back yard. It has been reshaped by the master gardener in the house, and now lives its days with purpose

The Ugly Sapling Becomes A Mighty Oak

So that brings us back around to our little, dog-legged tree. This little tree recently received a pruning. Sheila, our resident green thumb, got out the pruning shears and did some surgery.

She cut some awkward limbs and lopped back the misdirected branches. She painstakingly reshaped our little oak tree to redirect its path.

God uses our pain and suffering, which he does not cause, to reshape us into his faithful servants. We don’t like it, but it’s necessary. Just like the pruning of the tree is necessary. 

I’ve personally been through tragic circumstances that I needed to endure. I didn’t like it. I didn’t choose it. And, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. But, I know I am better having gone through it. I’m closer to God because of it. It formed me into a better servant of Christ.

For this I’m grateful for the experience. I can truly say, “all things work together for good, for I am called according to his purpose.”

I would encourage you to embrace your pain and seek God in the middle of it. God will work something good out of your suffering. Yes, you should continue to pray for peace and comfort. I recommend you do everything you can with others around you to help minimize suffering.  But, don’t miss out on looking for God in the middle of your pain. He’ll meet you there and strengthen you. He is with you in your pain and you remain in him.

Take heart, brothers and sisters. In spite of your tribulations, "Jesus has overcome the world."

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